Blog #6 Handshakes and Hugs from South Africa

November 11, 2025

Hello everyone! This is the 3rd to last blog! My, how time flies. This is a slightly different kind of blog, as the assigned topic for this one was an interview. The assignment was to interview someone from a different culture and take note of the multitude of differences, similarities, and unique things about the other person’s culture. It is my pleasure to introduce you to Akira! We met at one of the meetings of the Christian Union Society (think of it as a club) and hit it off while chatting afterwards. Akira is currently studying early childhood education (just like me!) at Mary Immaculate College on the other side of Limerick. Even though she does not attend the University of Limerick, she still comes to campus for the Christian Union meetings every week.

What are five random facts about you?

  1. Akira is originally from South Africa. However, you would never know it, as she moved to Ireland three years ago. Many think she is from Ireland because of her accent. There are many accents and variations throughout Ireland, so she is often mistaken for being native to Ireland.
  2. She can fluently speak three languages. Growing up in South Africa, she spoke Afrikaans. She has since learned Gaelic and English. Akira is also currently learning a little bit of Romanian and hopes to learn Spanish as well.
  3. Akira loves to read. Her favorite book series is the Percy Jackson Series by Rick Riordan.
  4. She has five siblings that she loves to hang out with, three full siblings and two step-siblings.
  5. Akira did gymnastics growing up for 2-3 years.

What do you enjoy doing? Hobbies? Work? Personal time?

As shared earlier, Akira loves books. Specifically romance books. One of her favorites is “Better Than the Movies” by Lynn Painter. She loves singing and dancing around the house with a dramatic flair. Akira also has some theater experience. She currently works at an Italian-style pizza place owned by a couple from Romania. They are teaching her a little bit of Romanian, and she is helping their child learn Gaelic. Akira loves trying and experiencing many different kinds of foods… more on this later. She is also currently learning how to knit in her spare time.

What is something you wish other people knew about you?

Akira says sometimes she is quiet. Most of the time, she is just tired or thinking, even though most people think she might be mad when she doesn’t respond right away.

What was your childhood like? Where did you grow up? Who was in your home?

Akira was born in Durban, South Africa (see map). She lived with both parents until she was six years old, when they divorced. Her dad remarried, and she lived with her Dad, stepmom, and her two step-siblings. One of her favorite memories is going camping with her Dad, step-mom, and step-siblings, either in the mountains or by the beach. She recalled that they would often invite people to their campsite for a braai. Braais are the South African name for a barbecue. Think hamburgers, hot dogs, pasta salads, fruit salads, and chips. Akria later moved in with her mom. Soon after, she met her best friend, and they have remained good friends to this day, 10 years later.

What traditions or holidays are most important to you or your family? What’s your favorite holiday/time of the year?

Akira’s favorite holiday is Christmas. In South Africa, Christmas is in summer. No, it’s not in June or July. Which is what I originally thought after she told me. Christmas is still celebrated on December 25, but December is not a summer month. Ponder that for a moment. Akira and her family love going to the beach around Christmas, enjoying good food, and celebrating all together as a family, exchanging gifts, or playing games. Because her family loves having a braai, this might be the food they prepare for Christmas. Traditional Christmas food in South Africa may also include lamb, chicken, broccoli salad, pasta salad, potato salad, fruit salad, and various other types of salads.

What is a big holiday in your culture that not many others would know about?

Heritage Day is a significant celebration in South Africa. Akira compared it to the 4th of July. Because South Africa is such a multicultural country, it celebrates the diverse heritages of its people on Heritage Day. Everyone dresses up in their traditional cultural attire and prepares a cultural dish to bring in and share, either at work or in school. In some schools, activities may even be prepared for students to participate in.

How do people in your culture usually greet each other?

Akira says in Durban, where she grew up, people greet each other by saying “Howzit” (pronounced How’s it?), as in How is it going? Just like in America, responses are not too common, as most people have passed each other before an answer can be given. Or, most simply, extend their hand for a handshake to greet the other. But in church, Akira says that everyone hugs each other. I think we could say it’s the same in the States!

How do people in your culture view time or punctuality?

This is a somewhat broad answer. In America, I think we could agree that for most people, being on time is arriving just before, on, or just after the agreed-upon time. But yes, everyone has their own perceptions and practices. Akira told me that in South Africa, “on time” could literally mean arriving right at the agreed-upon time (e.g., 4 pm), or it could be anything up to an hour after. She said most would probably arrive at 20 past or 30 past the agreed-upon time (4:20 pm or 4:30 pm).

If you could travel to any place in the world, where would you go and why?

After some thoughtful reflection, Akira decided on Spain. For three reasons: 1) To visit a good friend, 2) to try churros and dip them in chocolate, and 3) to learn Spanish.

What’s something your culture does really well that you wish others could experience? What is your favorite thing about your home culture?

Food. Yup. We talked way too long about food. And we were hungry after. Akira said, “Our food is the best food, but I guess everyone could say that.” 🙂 She continued on and told me that there are 12 official languages in South Africa, and that the people are extremely kind, with everyone enjoying chatting and visiting with each other.

The main similarities I noticed between our cultures are the significant role food plays in holidays and family gatherings, as well as a strong love for spending time with family, especially around the holidays. The main differences (and I think these are also the unique points) I observed were the seasons and holidays associated with them, as well as Heritage Day. Christmas is a winter holiday, yet it still falls in December. I can’t wrap my brain around that still. I love the idea of Heritage Day. I think sometimes we get too wrapped up in how we are similar and should be like everyone else that we lose sight of the unique things that make us, individually and as a people, who we are. We don’t take enough time to really notice why or how others are different from us in positive ways. I learned a great deal about Akira and South Africa. I really enjoyed my time visiting with her and getting to know her and her home culture better.

Blog #5 We’re halfway there! Wo-oah! Living on a prayer!

It’s the halfway point blog! In this blog, I’ll reflect on experiences and goals and evaluate the last half of this experience.

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b

Let’s be real for a moment. I’m in another country. Crazy. I still don’t really believe it. It’s not easy either. Yes, it’s fun and exciting, but I didn’t stop to process enough that those feelings will wear off eventually. Yes, I learned about culture shock, but I didn’t know what to expect. When will it hit? Is it like one big moment or a very gradual thing? Will it wear off? How long could it take? What will it feel like?

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b   

Homesickness is real. I’m not homesick for a place. I miss my fiancé. I miss my friends. I miss my family. I miss the laughs and memories we make when we’re together. I miss people I know. Don’t get me wrong, I’m having fun and making many memories! My housemates are fantastic, and we love hanging out together. We just had a mid-term for the academic semester. Assignments are coming due every week. Thanksgiving is around the corner. We don’t get Thanksgiving break. Christmas decor is going up and is in stores all over the place. I’m looking forward to Christmas, family, and memories. I love the anticipation of Christmas, but it’s coming earlier than usual. Being at a higher latitude than the US is different. It was completely dark by 5:30 pm today. So in my mind, it’s later in the year than usual, and Thanksgiving is less than a week away (not a month). Then the music can be played and the tree can go up. 

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b

I have gotten out of my comfort zone more than usual. And to be honest, I don’t always know where my comfort zone is now. I have learned so much while here, most of it not from classes. I have gained so many new experiences and learned from them. I have learned how to navigate using public transportation. From taking buses and trains across the country, purchasing tickets, taking the bus across town, or just walking and navigating the city, I’ve become more comfortable with navigating unfamiliar places. This is a goal accomplished. I have attended the Christian Union Society (a club) multiple times. I’m still not completely comfortable, but I’ve definitely improved. This is a goal in progress. It’s hard to enrich connections with those who are far away. But the fun part is planning and anticipating the sweet reunion and hugs to come. Calling and just talking isn’t always my cup of tea. I like doing things and making memories. This is a goal in progress.

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b

Where can I improve? I’ve got more than three. But that’s what we’ll stick to. 1) Planning things to do with my people in the States. Minecraft? Games? 20 questions? Digital escape rooms? All things I’ve done or thought about. 2) Devotions and livestreaming church. Getting to a WELS church is not possible here. There are none. The closest one is in London. Did you hear a good sermon? Share it with me! Read a good bible passage? Send it my way! Text or Facebook Messenger is great! 3) Motivation for school work. What I learn is applicable and fun. But I need a better homework motivation schedule. Most of the time, I don’t want to sit in my apartment and do homework.

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b

I was surprised how similar it was to the US. There are still some significant differences, such as Ireland being more of a being culture than a doing culture. In the US, everyone is always go-go-go, but Ireland is a bit more laid back. In my education course last week, a guest speaker gave us information on the writing center, telling us tips and tricks for planning to write a paper (this class is mainly for first-year students). When discussing planning to write our paper, she told us to put a beer break in the schedule. No joking. She said, “And think about when you will have a beer in there.” I was stunned. I love how the Irish people aren’t as focused on every task they have to do. They take time to live and just to be. I did not know this before, and it has changed my opinion that we all could use a little break. We only get one life. Why rush through it? God has blessed us with time with our families and friends on this earth. Don’t ignore that. Don’t toss it away. Don’t live to work. Work to live. Take time just to be.

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b

 

 

 

 

 

Song to check out! → “Across the Pond” by JigJam

Song to check out! → “Young Again” by Barry Kirwan

Blog #4 Lecture Halls & Labyrinths

I am officially halfway through the academic portion of the semester! There will be a study and exam week after classes finish. You may be wondering how the classes and academics differ from MLC. I highlight the main similarities or differences in classroom culture, course structure, teaching style, and course workload.

Classroom Culture

Here at the University of Limerick (UL), classes are filled with your typical 18-22 year-olds who like to get distracted or doze off in class. I think that’s pretty typical for any college student. 🙂 Just like at MLC, students are expected to attend every class period held and actively listen to the professor. In the first few weeks of school, they are very considerate of students walking in late because they could not find the classroom. It is a big campus with over 18,000 students and over 1,000 faculty and staff. MLC’s student body is around 700 students—that’s basically the international student population at UL! The main building, composed of 5 sub buildings, is the most confusing building I have ever seen. It is practically a maze. With so many hallways and corners, and doors. You’ve got to be extra careful to read the minimal signage as you venture into the unknown. Thankfully, I have one class in the building, and it is literally 50ft inside the main entrance.

Course Structure

The courses and individual classes are, in a way, similar, but there are some minimal differences. The classes are structured on different schedules from MLC. At MLC, class times are fairly consistent and regular throughout the week. For example, one might have a class that meets 3 times a week—Monday, Wednesday, Friday—and at the same time and duration each of those days. At UL, it’s broken down differently. Every course has a two-hour lecture. These two hours may be back-to-back or split at 2 different times in the week. For example, for my education course, I have a one-hour lecture on Wednesdays and 9 am, and the other is on Friday at 3 pm. In addition to the lectures for each course, most also have a lab period or tutorial. These labs and tutorials are designed to give students a chance to interact with and ask questions about the material from the lectures. Every student in the course attends the same lecture, most likely in theater seating. Students are divided into groups of about 20-30 for labs and tutorials. Traditional UL students are assigned one of the multiple labs and tutorials to attend each week at the same time. Me? I got to pick which one I wanted for the whole semester because I had to put my schedule together on my own. Traditional students are handed their schedule already put together.

The semester is 12 weeks of classes, plus an additional 3 weeks for studying and taking the exams. This is a much different structure than MLC. MLC has 16 weeks of classes and 1 week to take exams. This does make sense because of the drastic difference in the student body populations.

Teaching Style

The teaching style at UL is fairly similar to MLC. Most professors put up a slide show and talk through it as students take notes and write down key points. One of my professors uses no PowerPoint, but instead just talks to the students. I’m still trying to figure this one out. The labs and tutorials are the discussion portion of the course. At MLC, the lecture and discussions are not separated but intertwined as one.

Although I have not quite experienced this yet, I have been told that it is typical for students to address their professor on a first-name basis once initial introductions have been made. Professors are very eager to learn all their students’ names. It is also normal for a student to just speak during a pause in the lesson if they have a question. They are not expected to raise their hand. I still raise my hand to answer questions—it’s a habit.

Workload & Study Habits

Weekly assignments vary based on each class. For example, my history course has two papers. One is due in Week 8 and the other in Week 12. Those are the only assignments. My education course, however, has weekly journal entries. These are not submitted each week, but students are expected to keep the journal up-to-date. Other classes may have weekly readings or smaller projects every other week. For example, in my digital media course, we just had a small project where we were tasked to capture and edit a few photos on the theme of time—two of mine are shown below. I don’t have a set homework schedule, as it varies week to week, and my weekends might be filled with travel adventures. Some courses more heavily lean towards being independent study-led, and others have more guided instruction. Honestly, it just depends on the professor and the course content.

Overall, I cannot really say UL’s academics are more similar or more different from MLC. It truly depends on your courses and professors. My education course feels very familiar to MLC, and I believe it’s mostly because of the content, but also the professor’s teaching style. My Irish history course feels nothing like MLC, and I’m still learning to navigate it.

 

Song to check out! → “The Rattlin’ Bog” by Seamus Kennedy

https://youtu.be/U58ES0aiUJo?si=yzZzHgNqfAqJg8lR

Blog #3 Village Vibes: Studying and Staying in Limerick

Dia duit! Hello! And Good Day! (pronounced dee-uh g-witch)

It has been just about a month of living in Ireland! You may be wondering if there are dorms on campus or if I live with a host family. What is the housing accommodation like? I live in the Plassey Residence Village, which is pretty much a small apartment complex. There are a few different villages all around campus to accommodate all the students. Each village is comprised of small apartments, each with its own door to the outside. Plassey Village is only about a 15-minute walk to the center of campus and most of my classes. This is pretty typical for all the villages. Each apartment houses 4, 6, or 8 people. My apartment holds 4 bedrooms, each with a twin bed with storage drawers underneath, a desk and chair, a wardrobe, and a sink with cabinet space. We also have a shared living space with a couch, TV, dining table and chairs, and a kitchen. 

I live with 3 other lovely ladies—Katie, Nessa, and Eli. We love living together this semester, and I couldn’t be happier with how my housing arrangements turned out. We’ve settled into a routine in the evenings of making dinner and watching a few episodes of Gilmore Girls. I love getting to experiment in the kitchen that I only share with 3 girls instead of an entire dormitory. Friday nights are pizza and movie nights for Katie and me, and we look forward to them every week!

We have a routine of going shopping together each weekend. We make a list of places we need to visit, such as the Milk Market (a farmers’ market), Savvas Music store for Irish tin whistles, Dunnes for groceries or clothes, Penny’s for clothes, Michael Guiney’s for kitchen things, and a local shop for a sweet treat or coffee! We plan our day and make our shopping lists. We check the 304 and 304A bus routes and times (always estimated as it’s usually late). We spend the morning or most of the day in town, making Dunnes our last stop for groceries before catching the bus back to the village.

As the University of Limerick hosts 18,000+ students, there are quite a few differences between MLC and its 600+ students. The laundry room in my village has 3 washers and 3 dryers for 40+ apartments. MLC provides 8 washers and 8 dryers in the Augustana dormitory for 190+ girls. There are 2 bathrooms in my apartment, shared between 4 girls. Augustana contains 1 large bathroom with 6 toilets and showers, and 10 sinks for an entire floor of girls.

I live in a village called Plassey,

The weather is not too nasty. 🌦️🌈

With Nessa and Eli, and Katie,

We four girls live steady.

We are all pretty classy.

 

In the village four girls live.

Many memories we give.

Apartments are vast.

But we all will last.

Our kitchen has no sieve.

 

Dishes and plates we had.

Upon our arrival, we were glad.

To the store we must go.

And tote bags in tow.

The bus with us and our cargo.

 

Four bedrooms for four.

We have lots of doors.

Twelve you see

And this must be

For we have things to store.

 

To Guiney’s we shall ‘venture,

For I must have a blender.

Soup I want to create

But puree need to make.

This has brought me much splendor.

 

Studying and staying in Limerick,

It must be considered a picnic.

Little friends do we see, 🕷️

That should be in a tree. 🐝

Our kitchen has tiny sidekicks.

 

There are too many good songs to choose from, so here are two!

Irish Pub Song, by The High Kings: https://youtu.be/bp3UsU5pQT8?si=qQ8SZcD7cdcTPccb

Hills of Connemara, by Gaelic Storm: https://youtu.be/rREMPw8U2No?si=3iKjg-4H-7AVBVi9

 

Blog #2 First Impressions

It is the end of week two! I arrived safely at the Shannon airport and was picked up by the University bus. We were dropped off at our accommodations and unpacked right away. We took a short walk around the campus just to see a few places and had the rest of the day to visit the grocery store and rest. I am living in Plassey Village. Stay tuned for more details later in my next post. 🙂 After two weeks, I have already noticed some key differences.

First, I noticed that the Irish drive on the left side of the road. I was aware of it going into my travels, but it’s very odd to actually see it in person and experience it. 

After a week of orientation and presentations, my first adventure in Ireland was to the Aran Islands off the west coast of mainland Ireland. There are three islands that make up the Aran Islands. After a 2-hour bus ride, we boarded a ferry to the smallest of the three—Inis Oírr, pronounced “Inisheer.” I’m very thankful for the experienced bus drivers who are able to drive many international students down the narrow roads of Ireland. Some chose to walk the island, some chose a horse and cart, but Katie G. and I rented bikes like the Irish do. We practiced biking on the left side of the one-lane road (It got much easier as the day progressed.). We biked all day, taking in all the amazing views of the little island. We saw cows, old ruins of a church and castle, a graveyard and church, horses, a small beach, a shipwreck from 1960, and bought fudge from a local stand—Man of Aran Fudge.

Second, the people of Ireland are all nice folks. They are so welcoming to all international students and are curious about where we call home. Even the drivers on the road are nicer to pedestrians than I’m accustomed to. In the States, I would have to wait for two or three cars to pass before I could walk. Yet, here, the cars and even the city buses stop for pedestrians within a relatively short distance!

Friends are everywhere around us; you just have to look for them. I have met people from Belgium, Ireland, India, Hungary, the US, Sweden, France, Germany, Turkey, England, Lithuania, the Netherlands, and Denmark! I attended the scavenger hunt hosted on UL’s campus for international students as a bonding activity. I wasn’t sure what to expect going into it, and I wasn’t entirely sure if I wanted to do it. In the end, I couldn’t have had more fun! I met three lovely ladies, two from France and one from Germany! We had lots of laughs and created memories together. We all even ended up going out for coffee after the scavenger hunt—something I never expected to happen in my first week. Getting out of your comfort zone is a big piece of finding the best experiences and meeting new friends! It’s not easy, by any means. But the first step is learning to be okay with being uncomfortable—because you never know who you’ll meet or the amazing memories you’ll come away with!  

Song to check out! → “Come In” by the Irish Rovers https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXozFVGO2ok&list=RDwXozFVGO2ok&start_radio=1

Laura Kopplin

Blog #1 Pre-departure, Goals, and Expectations

In just a few days, the countdown ends, my plane takes off, and the adventure officially begins. On August 31st, I’ll land at Shannon Airport in Ireland, with classes starting shortly after on September 8th.

There will no doubt be highs and lows along the way, but I’m incredibly excited to share this journey with you. Stay tuned for more updates on my Irish adventure!

Last semester, at the end of my pre-departure class, we were challenged to write down our expectations and goals as we prepared for this experience. It was a meaningful way to reflect on what lies ahead—and now, it’s almost here.

 

Expectations of Myself:

I expect to talk with close friends and family about the ebb and flow of new experiences and being away from the most familiar people and places.

I expect to learn about the Irish culture and how it differs from mine.

 

Expectations of the Worldstrides Study Abroad Program and the University of Limerick:

I expect the program to communicate with me and share announcements or updates about the excursions.

I expect the program to be prepared at my arrival, provide me with the information I need, and support me in obtaining the necessary credentials for entry.

 

Apprehensions:

How will the 6-hour time difference affect communications with those back home?

Will this trip be everything I imagined since I started planning in the spring of 2023?

 

Goals for the Semester:

I want to leave my comfort zone and still be okay being uncomfortable.

I want this experience to enrich my connections with the people at home.

 

Music has played a significant role in my life. I am a consumer of music, not a composer. It has the power to transport us, to stir memories, and even to lift the soul in praise to the Lord.

The more music you listen to, the more you begin to understand your tastes—what moves and doesn’t. You come to expect a particular style from musicians, and when you press play, you expect a song to play based on the title listed.

For the past two years, ever since the planning began, I’ve been arranging an Irish music playlist—filled with popular tunes, film soundtracks, and personal favorites. As I share this journey with you, I’ll include a link to a song with each post. It might be a track I simply love, or it may connect to a place I’ve visited or a moment from this semester—like today’s selection.

So for now, I’ll leave you with An Irish Blessing

May the road rise to meet you

May the wind be at your back

May the sun shine warm upon your face

May the rain fall softly on your fields

And until we meet again

May you keep safe

in the gentle loving arms of God.

https://youtu.be/5mtR9qoISPU?si=_Rm8FBxknmeMCPiZ