Alaina’s Adventures Abroad – Coming to an End 🙁

Hi everyone <3

How am I already writing my final blog??! It feels as if just yesterday I was writing my pre-departure blog a week before I left for this incredible semester. This week I have a full week of classes and exams the following half week. It is kind of odd to say we only have a week and a half left. Sarah and I were recalling when we were in London with our other study-abroad friends and David said, “I only have 2 weeks left.” We both remember at that moment saying how we could not imagine that feeling since we had “so much time left.” Well, it is safe to say, I am feeling all of the emotions of realizing my time in my beloved Madrid is almost up. 

 

With my last week and a half, I will be attending school and prepping for exams along with spending my other time in all of my favorite places in Madrid. A very close friend is visiting this week as well, so she will get to see many of my favorite places for the first time, as I am seeing them for the last. ): My family is also visiting me after my program finishes and we are going to travel in Spain. I am SO excited to give them the biggest hug and show them around this city and country that I love dearly.  

 

We were given a number of prompts to respond to, which I appreciate, otherwise, I would have written on and on about all of the blessings, lessons, and experiences of this semester. (Not always a bad thing…but for the sake of keeping this relatively short…) 

 

  1. What are you most proud of? 

I am most proud of how I have learned to go with the flow and let things happen as they are intended to, within reason, of course. I am someone who plans ahead and likes to have a solid plan when I am traveling somewhere, or even for my day to day life. Sometimes when I do this, I stress my self out more than I think I realize in the moment.  It has been really nice to just see where the day takes me or what “plan” works best for our schedule and budget. I am also very proud of the time I have taken to spend alone. I am incredibly thankful for Emily and Sarah, but I did enjoy spending time with myself. This is something I think needs to be done more often because in my opinion, you can learn more about who you are as an individual. I have learned so much about myself here and I am so grateful for that.  

 

  1. What would you do differently if you could?

I am really appreciative of the way this semester has gone, but if I were to do something differently, I would have not taken so much time the first couple weeks of the semester and before it even started, “planning” trips and everything I wanted to accomplish. I learned to just go with the flow here and be thankful for the plans that were made, even if they were very different than what I had expected months ago. I think I would’ve also made smaller goals in some areas. I have learned that when I set goals and do not meet them, I beat myself up about it a lot and instead of working towards the goal, I run further away because I feel like it is “too late.” I would have set smaller goals so I would feel more motivated that I could reach the goals. This is something I want to work on when I get home. If there was one travel thing I would have done differently is travel to the north of Spain. I was really hoping to get there, but I did not plan enough time. I will hopefully get there one day. 🙂 

 

  1. What will you incorporate into your life back home? 

One habit I have really loved growing into is journaling. I have kept a daily journal and a prayer journal and have been consistent in writing in them. There was a time when I thought I lost my prayer journal, but it turned up! (I am so thankful it did.) I am so excited to finish my journals and to have them as a keepsake from this incredible time, as well as to look back at all of my answered prayers and unanswered prayers and praise God for how He has guided me and watched out for me during this time. I will also incorporate being more curious about what goes on in the world, but more specifically in my home town and state. It can be very easy to get into routine at home but there are so many places and things I have not experienced in my home town. I want to go to more markets and more events that are held around the area. I would love to try new restaurants and cafes. It is so easy to get comfortable going to my 2-3 places that I rely on and love, but being here has taught me that pushing myself out of my comfort zone and trying new things always brings unexpected blessings and meaningful experiences. 

 

  1. What are you most grateful for? 

I am SO grateful for this opportunity to study abroad and to see this magnificent world that our God created. Truly, this experience of seeing parts of Europe and more of Spain has been a dream. 

God has blessed me with so many wonderful support systems and I am so thankful for them. My parents have encouraged me to go out and see the world, while studying the language I love, even though they had to send their “not-so-little-girl” away for 4 months!!!! That is a long time. (At least for me.) My parents are some of my biggest role models and truly, they are my best friends. They lead me to Christ daily and encourage me to go out into the world being a light for our loving God. I am so grateful for them.

 I also want to include how thankful I am for my boyfriend, Dylan. Dylan and I have been dating for about over 4 years and most of that time has been distanced. This study abroad time was a LONG time to go without seeing each other. We did have the one week in March and that was such a wonderful time and I am so grateful for the time we did have. Still, for us, this has been a long time of different time zones, communicating over the phone, and missing one another. Dylan has supported me and encouraged me throughout this entire process and I am so thankful to be loved by him and to love him.

 I also want to include how grateful I am for our “study abroad squad.” Mrs. Kassuelke has taught us over the last year through classes at MLC more about culture and more about ourselves as individuals. (We love you, Mrs. Kassuelke, you are the best!!) Included in these classes were David Fenske, Alison Foxen, Emily Wittig, Sarah Hoffe, and myself. Being with Emily and Sarah in Spain has been wonderful and I am so thankful to have them here and to share this beautiful experience with them. Even though Alison and David were living their study abroad experience in London and Ireland, I still felt close to them. Our friendships all grew over this last year and I am so grateful for the role they have all played and for an amazing support system.  I could go on and on about everything I am grateful for here, but the most important is that I am grateful for my God and how He has shown me the blessings of this season of my life. 

 

  1. How have you seen God’s hand in your experience abroad? What unexpected blessings or provision have you seen? 

There have been many evident experiences during this semester where I have seen God’s hand. I would say one of the most obvious ones is all of the beauty I have seen. I have always been a small town girl at heart because it is all I’ve known, at least for living. Even though I still would consider myself a small town girl, I have a new found appreciation for big cities and have seen so much beauty here. When we have traveled around Spain and Europe, I have gotten to see more of the beauty of this creation. Some specific places that really had me saying, “Wow God”, were the cliffs at the furthest point in Europe in Portugal, the crystal clear waters in Tenerife and Mallorca, and the hiking trails and fishing villages in the Cinque Terre, Italy. Of course, there were many more of these moments in my other travels, but these are some that greatly stick out. I have also seen God’s hand in our travels when we were accidentally in unsafe areas or were barely making a couple flights and a layover. God has kept me safe and has gotten me where I had hoped without TOO much stress, which is an incredible blessing. I have seen God’s hand in the friendships I have, both here in Spain and back home. God has blessed me with such wonderful friends and I am so thankful. An unexpected blessing for me has been learning more about myself through many experiences this semester. I have learned more about who I am, what I appreciate in a friend, why I have the morals I do, what I need to work on, and where in my life I am so blessed. This time away has presented me with lots of time to think and reflect on who I am and why, and that has been a very unexpected blessing. 

 

  1. What advice would you give future semester abroad students?

I am so proud of you for choosing to leave the life you are comfortable with and know well in order to experience something so beautifully different! It can be so scary sometimes to take a leap like this, but let me tell you that God is with you every step of the way! Take my advice when I say that everything does work out in the best way possible, according to God’s plan. I do think it is perfectly fine to look into the things you’d like to do and the places you would like to travel and everything you want to see, but keep in mind that those ideas and expectations may change and that is perfectly okay. You will love your abroad experience no matter what! 

Reach out to those around you that you do not know! Get to know others from different states and countries and ask, politely and with curiosity, about cultures you are not familiar with! I have had some of the most interesting conversations and have not regretted going outside my comfort zone to have them one bit. While you should 100% get to know others and reach out to new friends, remember to be true to who you are. There may be times that you feel a bit uncomfortable or that something isn’t for you, I have felt this way! Stay true to who you are and your morals, this in itself is shining your light for your Lord. 

Keep a journal!!!!! Some days it has felt like a task and some weeks I have even had to catch up on a couple entries because life does get busy here, but you will not regret this keepsake. I am so excited to keep my travel journal so I can look back at it when I am reminiscing about my abroad times and show those I love, perhaps even my own children one day. Write down your prayers! It has been so special to see all of my prayers and how God has answered them. 

Travel! I know traveling can be overwhelming and expensive, but please, take this opportunity while you are young to see this beautiful world! Every place I have been has never failed to leave me in some sort of wonder at the creativity of our God. Make sure to travel around your home country, and outside of it! Stay in your own city for some weekends! I have loved the weekends I have spent in Madrid. There is always so much to do and I love feeling like I actually live here. Give some love to your home (abroad) city. 

Do not be afraid to reach out to those who love you! You are not in this experience alone, even though sometimes it may feel like it because of the distance. It is completely normal to feel tired or homesick, let yourself feel these things and talk to God about it! 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart! He will get you through anything and has such greater plans than we could ever imagine. 

 

What a blessing it is to study in such a beautiful country with such beautiful people and culture. This world is so incredible and the last four months have continued to be a testament of how amazing our God is. 

 

Thank you so much for following along my study abroad journey! I appreciate all your love, prayers, and support. Please feel free to reach out with any questions you may have! 🙂 I would love to share more if anyone is interested. 

 

All my love, 

Alaina Wiedoff

El fin?!

The end: el fin, el final, el límite. Que loco. How crazy that it’s already the end of the study abroad semester. It feels like I was writing about my goals for the next four months of life in Spain just yesterday. And now I only have a week left. The end is near. 

I accomplished many of my goals this semester, which makes me very proud. What I’d have to say I’m the most proud of is how much I solo-travelled. I had 3 trips I did myself: a weekend in Amsterdam, a week in Italy, and a weekend in Paris. In the past, I’ve always been the kind of person who does things with people. And don’t get me wrong, I still enjoy spending time with friends and doing things with them, but traveling alone, not knowing anyone, and going to a different country was exciting. But it was also nerve-wracking. I was in a new country and didn’t know anyone. That meant sometimes I would eat alone. At MLC, I’d almost always go to meals with someone, or at the very least, I’d sit at the “class table” and have someone I knew. Traveling solo required me to ask for help on occasion. I’m stubborn and like to solve problems independently, but new territory (literally) commands a new mindset. Solo travel allowed me to see what I wanted to see. None of my friends want to see a random street or statue?  That’s okay, I’ll just take whatever form of public transportation or walk there. They don’t want to wander a museum or eat cheap food to save money? No worries, I’ll find a grocery store on my way back to my hostel. I could do what I wanted and see the places I liked. But by far, the biggest blessing of solo traveling is the opportunity to make new friends. In hostels, I met many amazing people from around the world. Some places include the US, Canada, Australia, England, Germany, and many more. I still catch up with a few of them about their travels and hope we’ll continue to do so. 

I’m very happy with how I spent my semester, but if I could change one thing, I would love to travel more in my host country. My program hosted a few day trips to nearby cities, but there are amazing places near the coasts that I would’ve loved to visit. For example, the north of Spain has a lot of history and beautiful beaches. In the south, there are caves and beaches. I remember the crystal blue water in Nerja when I visited Spain almost 5 years ago. Then, in the west, I would love to return to Barcelona, but I also want to see Valencia. Both are coastal cities with a lot of history and culture. 

Going back home is going to be a considerable change. There are things I will miss about Spain, as to be expected, so I have some “habits” I want to bring back with me. In the morning, I listen to a 5-10 minute devotion by my home church or Time of Grace while I get ready for school. This allows me to get ready for my day and start it with God’s Word. I did some notetaking in my journal Bible, though I didn’t do as much as I had hoped. I want to better this habit once I get home. I also want to walk more, but I’m not exactly sure how plausible that will be. I’m excited to drive my car, don’t get me wrong (I’m going to blast music with the windows down,) but getting my body moving a bit while I walk to nearby places is healthy in so many ways. Right now, I plan to take nightly walks during the summer, and I’ll make another plan during the school year. 

I’m grateful for so many things from this experience. To pick one thing would be super tricky, so I’m going to say I’m thankful for the culture. I’ve traveled enough to experience a few different cultures and meet many people. I’ve made a few really close friends in Spain, and we can see museums or explore new neighborhoods together. I’ve even tried new foods and navigated other countries with them. I’ve met people from other countries and have seen their kindness. I love talking about the different cultural aspects, including food and vocabulary. Even the locals are interesting to talk to. Especially in Spain, I would chat with cashiers or market vendors. They’re not deep conversations, but I often learn something interesting about their life or Spain. I’ve seen God’s hand in this aspect, too. The creation of different cultures, especially languages, was a result of a sin at the Tower of Babel, with people selfishly wanting to be even with God. But God turned this sin into something good so we can see and experience different ways of life. It’s been such a blessing to meet all these fantastic people and get to know them. I’ve gotten to share my faith with a few of them and shared my cancer story with them, too, which is a huge blessing. 

Finally, here are a few recommendations for people going to study abroad. Just go for it. Don’t be afraid to look out of place because, honestly, you probably will. But you’ll learn the cultural norms and get to meet a ton of really lovely people in the process. And no matter what happens, God will bless you in the process.

Sunset in Sol

Such a talented painter

Colosseum

Trevi Fountain

Pasta lesson!

Longest hike for this view

Boat tour

Lovely gals in Italy

Woke up at 4:45 for this sunrise

Gotta hold up the tower

Starry Night!

Eiffel Tower!!

Alison’s Adventures in London

“I know who I was when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.”

Lewis Carroll’s Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland tells the whimsical story of a young girl, Alice, as she navigates the curious world of Wonderland. The quote above is Alice’s response when she is asked, “Who are you?” by the Caterpillar. 

This quote perfectly encompasses my study abroad experience. Four months ago, I was at home, anxious and nervous while preparing to travel abroad. Now, I’m sitting in one of my favorite cafes in London for the last time, reflecting and preparing to travel home! That is CRAZY! Just like Alice, I have gone and changed throughout this adventure. I am still the same person; however, my perspective and appreciation for the world have changed. 

Some of my most notable changes include:

  1. Being an expert travel agent. Over the semester, I have used Google Maps and CityMapper daily. I have also learned to plan all my trips and adventures, which is more complicated than it sounds. There were some late nights when I was figuring out flights, lodging, and all the sightseeing places I wanted to see while also trying to coordinate times and prices!
  2. Learning to adapt. Throughout the semester I have gotten to travel with a variety of people. Some of them were over-planners, while others were carefree travelers. I have had to adjust and adapt to different people’s personalities and travel styles. I have also had to adapt to changing surroundings, for example, my train being canceled last minute, my bus breaking down in the middle of nowhere, tickets being sold out, and unplanned weather conditions! 
  3. Growing self-confidence. I have always had self-confidence and independence; however, when living in a foreign country by myself, that self-confidence and independence changed. I am now used to traveling by myself. Also, doing basic things, such as cooking, going grocery shopping, and eating by myself, is something I had to adjust to. I have also gained confidence in speaking about my faith to others and having conversations with strangers. I have met some amazing people from all over the world. Some of those interactions have been very simple small talk, while others have been deeper conversations. I have enjoyed getting to know and meet so many new people!

One of the saddest parts of leaving is saying goodbye. One of my biggest fears coming into this semester was figuring out who I was going to be friends with. Over the last couple of months, I have made wonderful friends who have joined me on my travels and helped me navigate this crazy journey. I am incredibly grateful for them, and it has been sad to say goodbye. These last few days have been bittersweet. I am filled with a wide range of emotions, from sadness to relief to excitement. I LOVE London! This city is huge and has so much variety in every corner. I haven’t even been able to see everything, and I have been here for months! I am sad to leave this amazing city, but I am excited to return back to the comfort of home! I have missed family and friends from back home, and I look forward to coming back and sharing all my adventures with them! 

Recent adventures include:

  • Trip to Ireland
  • Daytrips to Peak District National Park, York, Canterbury, and Dover
  • Saw Much Ado About Nothing and Henry IV part one and two
  • Enjoying some of the sun that finally decided to come!

Traveling is something I enjoy doing, and I am so glad I have gotten the opportunity to have seen so many places. This semester I have gotten to go to seven different countries. I have also gone to fifteen different cities in England besides London. People have asked me, “What’s your favorite place you’ve been to while abroad?” This question is very tricky for me to answer. I have loved every single place I have been to. Every country and city have its own beauty, quirks, and personality. It is hard to compare the gorgeous rolling hills of Scotland to the vibrant life in Spain. I have taken every journey I have been on as an incredible blessing. Most people do not get the chance to live in Europe for months, and I am so glad I pushed myself out of my comfort zone and chose to do this! 

Unfortunately, there is only so much time and money in this world. There were several countries I missed but would’ve loved to visit while here (Germany, Italy, Greece). However, just because my semester abroad is at its end doesn’t mean that my traveling adventures have to be over. I plan to come back to Europe in the future to see those other countries, and I have many other countries in the world I also would love to visit as well! God’s creation is beautiful. It has been great to see different angles and perspectives from different cultures! 

I am excited to get to go home and to see my family! Luckily with the technology we have today, I got to FaceTime and message my family often, which significantly helped with the homesickness. However, I know that there will be some adjustments for when I do come back to the States. 

  1. Culture Shock – Even though the UK is relatively similar in certain cultural aspects to the US, there are still some differences. It will take getting used to driving again since I have taken public transportation everywhere (I am also used to left-sided traffic). My perspective on time is also different. It takes me about an hour one way to get anywhere in London, so it’ll be nice to have to drive only ten to thirty minutes to go somewhere back home. 
  2. Gratefulness – Going home will allow me to take notice and appreciate the small things in life. I never realized how much I appreciate small things, such as sunshine, coffee makers, and 24-hour stores, until it was gone. When I go back home, I will be more thankful for those things in my life! 
  3. Adventures – When I go home, I think I will experience boredom. Not that being at home is necessarily “boring,” but over the past few months, I have constantly been traveling, trying new things, and going out. It will take some adjusting to get used to just being at home in my small town. However, I have learned to experience local culture and events since being abroad. When I go home, I plan on finding local or nearby activities to explore and learn to appreciate my surroundings more. 

I have dedicated two and a half years of my life to planning and imagining what studying in London would be like… and now it is over in the blink of an eye. The most consistent thing in my life, especially over here, is God. God has been with me every single step of this journey. He made sure I was safe and provided me with everything I needed. God blesses us in awesome ways, and this semester has shown me how God’s hand is at work in all things we do! 

My advice for others is to find whatever you are passionate about and go for it! One of the biggest things I do is I have a bucket list. I love having goals and doing everything I can to achieve those goals! For me personally, traveling is a huge thing on my bucket list! I did research and figured out how I could achieve my goals and dreams. So, my advice is to find your passions and dreams in your life and figure out what to do in order to accomplish them! For those of you who love the idea of traveling like me, the most important thing to do is START. Start planning… start researching… start saving… and figure out where in the world you want to go!

I leave part of my heart in London. Studying abroad has been a life changing experience for me, and I have appreciated every second of it!

Cliffs of Moher in Ireland

View from Peak District National Park in England

Me with two of my friends, Sophia and Kyara

Chatsworth House – filming location of 2005 Pride and Prejudice

Till we meet again,

Alison Foxen

The End…?

Wow. It feels like I was sitting in my bed at home typing my pre-departure blog just yesterday. But here I am, four months later, sitting in the same position, writing my final blog. My experience studying abroad in Ireland was fantastic! I can genuinely say that I loved everything about it (both the good and the bad). However, I am so glad to be home. Before I begin reflecting on my experience, I want to tell you a story. In my Medieval Literature class, we read an Arthurian legend called Sir Gawain and the Green Knight. Here’s a very simplified version of the story:

Our story begins with King Arthur in his court celebrating a Christmas feast. The feast is interrupted by a mysterious Green Knight who offers Arthur a unique proposition. The Green Knight’s proposal is simple: Arthur can strike the Green Knight’s neck (unchallenged)– if the Green Knight dies, Arthur wins the axe, but if the Green Knight survives, Arthur will have to face a return blow in precisely one year. Arthur wants to accept the challenge, but after some deliberation, Gawain decides to take Arthur’s place. Gawain takes the axe, holds it high overhead, and THUNK! The axe passes cleanly through the Green Knight’s neck, and his head is chopped off. Blood spurts everywhere, and as you can probably imagine, it’s a very gory scene. But here’s the thing– the Green Knight stands up, picks up his head, and says to Gawain, “See ya in a year!” and rides away on his horse. As you can imagine, Gawain is terrified. About nine months pass, and then Gawain sets off to find the Green Knight’s castle to receive his return blow. On his journey to the Green Knight’s castle, he faces several trials and tribulations (I won’t spoil them for you), and he eventually meets the Green Knight to receive his return blow. Spoiler alert: Gawain survives. Gawain returns home from his quest triumphant, but when he arrives back at Arthur’s kingdom, he feels like something is off. He’s gone on this great adventure, learned much about himself, survived, and even though he’s looked forward to returning home, his home feels uncanny. He feels out of place among his friends and family. And that’s how the story ends.

The reason I retold that entire story is because I feel like Gawain. Everything has been surreal and uncanny since returning home about two weeks ago. Sometimes, it hasn’t felt like I’m even at home. Other times, I’ve felt like a stranger in my homeland. To apply a modern term, what I and Gawain have experienced is called “reverse culture shock.”

Supposedly, it can be worse than standard culture shock, but I have yet to experience anything worse than the culture shock I dealt with in my first two weeks in Ireland. Most of the reverse culture shock I’ve experienced involves little things here and there. Here are a few examples:

  1. Paper towels. Paper towels are in public restrooms here! The bathrooms in Ireland only had air dryers, which I dislike. Yes, I understand it’s better for the environment, but my hands don’t get dried unless I stand there forever. God bless America and her paper towels!
  2. Single-use plastics. There were some single-use plastics in Ireland, but not nearly as many as in the United States. I would encourage you to count how much plastic you use daily. You’ll probably be shocked. I’ve noticed that I use more plastic in the US, mainly because I’ve been drinking coffee after coffee from my Keurig. 
  3. Water in the toilet bowl. The toilets in the US have SO MUCH water in them that’s unnecessary. Toilets in the US have probably five times the amount of water as toilets in Ireland. I don’t understand why there’s so much. It’s wasteful, and quite frankly, it splashes.
  4. Traffic. Galway has the worst traffic in Ireland. Ireland has some of the worst traffic in Europe. Although I never drove in Ireland and rarely rode in cars, I was constantly surrounded by traffic. Driving in South Dakota/Minnesota has been weird. I drove 14 miles on Highway 14 at around 10 am on a Friday without seeing a car. I’m genuinely from the middle of nowhere– and I’m okay with that! On a side note, I’m enjoying the silence of being at home. Instead of waking up to the sound of traffic in the morning, I wake up to birds chirping.

Shifting gears, I’d like to reflect a bit on my experience by answering some questions that I’ve been asked to answer:

  1. What are you most proud of?
    • I met an American girl in my study abroad group. I could not stand her from the moment I met her. She drove me up a wall and pushed my buttons. We had very differing views on several things. I wanted to avoid her, but instead, I forced myself to try to get to know her and enjoy her presence. Guess what? I ended up getting along with her and now consider her a friend. I’m very proud that I didn’t take the easy way out by avoiding her. Instead, I tried my hardest to show her Christian love and was rewarded with a new friend.
  2. What would you do differently if you could?
    • I mentioned earlier that I loved everything, both the good and the bad. While that is the truth (because I don’t believe in wasting time on “what ifs”), if I had to change one thing, I probably would’ve picked a bigger city to live in. By the second weekend I was in Galway, I had seen everything there is to see in Galway. If I had gone to a bigger city, there would’ve been more great things to explore and see. 
  3. What will you incorporate into your life back home?
    • I kept a daily journal in Ireland and plan to continue to journal daily. I did a poor job when I first arrived home, but I’ve been getting back into the habit in the past few days. In my daily journal, I wrote a prayer each day, and the most sensational experience I’ve had is reading old prayers and seeing how God has answered them.
  4. What are you most grateful for?
    • I am most grateful for the opportunities I had to travel at the end of my semester. I visited London, Madrid, Rome, and Florence in two weeks. I loved London– there were so many cool things to see– and my favorite was seeing a modern adaptation of Romeo and Juliet in the Globe Theater. 100% worth it. Madrid was charming, and I loved my time with the best tour guides I could ask for, Sarah and Alaina! I did not care so much for Italy. While I loved the history, ancient landmarks, and artworks, I despised the infrastructure and the tourists. Yes, I know I was a tourist, but there were simply too many people. I also found the cities to be dirty and the air quality terrible. Nevertheless, I enjoyed all of my experiences traveling.
  5. How have you seen God’s hand in your experience abroad? What unexpected blessings or provision have you seen?
    • I saw God’s hand everywhere, especially in answered and unanswered prayers. It surprised me, but when I think of the times that God felt the furthest away from me, he tended to be closer than ever.
    • Some unexpected blessings were the opportunities to make good Christian friends and learn about other Christian beliefs. After interacting with Christians of various denominations, I became more convicted of my personal beliefs. Also, changing my major to the pastor track was entirely unexpected!
  6. What advice would you give future semester-abroad students?
    • Do your research. I went into my experience without knowing much about where I was going. I also didn’t know much about the university I would attend. I would’ve benefited from more time exploring the internet and learning about where I would live for 3.5 months.
    • Know yourself. I think one of the keys to the success of my study abroad experience was making sure that I prioritized what I needed to do to take care of myself. For example, I always made sure that I had plenty to eat. I made sure I slept enough. I made sure I set aside time for reading and writing each day. I went to the gym multiple times per week. In other words, I developed a routine and stuck to it. By having control over my daily routine, I could deal with many of the uncontrollable aspects of studying abroad with grace and a clear mind.

Now that I’ve returned from Ireland, what’s next for me? Well, I’m headed to work. I’ve started working in the warehouse at Millborn Seeds (my family’s business), bagging seed mixes and preparing shipments. I worked there in high school all the time, and (surprisingly) I’m having fun “reliving my glory days.” Not only am I working in the warehouse, but I’m also helping my Dad with some cowboy work. I’ve tagged along several days to help check cattle and help with anything my Dad might need. Sometimes, it’s as simple as opening a gate; other times, it’s holding a ferocious calf in a chute to prevent it from kicking me. I love it all. It is gratifying to do honest work with my hands.

I’ll continue to work for about a month until I leave for Buenos Aires, Argentina, for my second Spanish immersion trip. I’ll be spending five weeks studying Spanish literature this year, and I’m incredibly excited. Once I return from that trip at the end of June, I’ll move back to New Ulm, where I’ll be house-sitting for Professor Degner and bartending at the New Ulm Country Club. Once August hits, I’ll return to school, beginning my studies in Greek, Hebrew, and Theology. I’m thrilled for the future.

Finally, I’d like to end with a special treat:

“David, you’ve read all those books (33.5 in total). Which ones would you recommend?”

  1. Sir Gawain and the Green Knight by Anonymous
  2. On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King
  3. For Whom the Bell Tolls by Ernest Hemingway
  4. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
  5. Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry
  6. Stoner by John Williams
  7. Summertime by J.M. Coetzee

Thank you for reading my blog(s). I enjoyed writing them as much as I enjoyed studying abroad. I found all of the writing and reflection that I did valuable for my experience.

Photos explained:

  1. My view in the Globe Theater
  2. Passing time with my lovely tour guides in Madrid
  3. Teaching my friends about Donatello’s Marble David in Florence
  4. A photo from checking cattle

Lex Orandi, Lex Credendi

If I am being honest, one of my biggest fears going into my study abroad experience was how my faith life would change while studying abroad in Ireland. I must confess I have a track record of being a weak Christian and not always taking my faith seriously. As I prepared to leave for Ireland, I thought about my first semester of college.

I was a freshman at Iowa State University studying Agricultural Business. Like most people at that age and in that position, I had no idea what I was doing with my life. I had moved hundreds of miles away from home, had no friends, and wasn’t in the best frame of mind. To keep a long story short, my first semester of college was a terrible experience, and one of the only things I remember is the constant pain of loneliness that I felt. I knew the answer to my problem at the time: go to God. Yet, for whatever reason, I didn’t turn to him. I floundered. I forgot about God. I skipped church. My prayer life? Nonexistent. I was on a downward spiral and losing my faith quickly. By the grace of God, I was able to get back on the right track.

Considering that that period of my life was the only significant length of time that I hadn’t been surrounded by fellow believers, I was nervous about how my time in Ireland would go. Therefore, I entered my study abroad experience with a plan for my personal faith life. Here was my plan of things to do to help nurture my faith:

  1. Daily Bible reading. I have been reading a daily Bible in a year plan since October of 2023. I continued to do my daily readings and reflect on them.
  2. Daily prayer entry. Not only did I journal daily, but I also wrote out a prayer each day. One of the most significant flaws with my prayer life is that my mind tends to wander. I’ve found that my mind stays more focused when I write my prayers. It’s also fantastic to read some of my prayers from throughout the experience and see how God answered them.
  3. Devotions. As a way to practice my Spanish and grow in my faith, Time of Grace ministries offer their daily email devotion in Spanish, so I’ve been reading those each day. I also took the opportunity to write a couple of devotions for fun.
  4. Reading. If you’ve kept up with my previous blogs, you would know I’ve read many books this semester. As of now, I’ve read 33 books. A couple of these books were Christian books. Most Christian books are practical, easily accessible, and present God’s Word in an easily digestible way.
  5. Church. Living in the age of live-streamed church services is excellent, but it’s nothing like attending a real church. Watching church online is fine, but it robs you of the opportunity to engage with fellow believers. Since COVID, many Christians have forgotten the great benefit of encouragement from seeing fellow believers every Sunday. I knew I needed to seek out a church, so I did some church exploring during my time in Ireland.

Overall, all of these things together have proved to be beneficial for my faith. My personal devotional life has never been so consistent and ardent. I can honestly say that my faith grew this semester. Romans 10:17 tells us that “faith comes from hearing the message”– the more the message about Christ was in my daily life, the more joy, hope, grace, and love flourished within my life. I also found a change in my mindset about my faith occurred. I began to stop looking at my faith as a monotonous checklist of things I needed to do. I quit seeing my faith life through “transactional” eyes. For example, by integrating more of God’s Word into my daily life, going to church on Sunday morning seemed less of a chore. Rather than seeing church as something to get through or “clocking in” with God, I was looking forward to worship. I suddenly found myself wanting to worship God. It was a radical change for the better, and I know the only reason it happened was through the power of the Holy Spirit and God’s Word.

I mentioned that I went church exploring in Ireland. As I mentioned, I wanted to find a church because Christian fellowship is vital. I also approached visiting these churches with differing doctrine as an opportunity to learn about other Christians’ beliefs and how to defend what I believe. Here’s how the process of church exploring went:

  1. The first Sunday I was in Galway, I attended a Methodist church. It was a small church with about thirty members. When I first walked into the church, I was greeted by an amiable lady, and I felt welcomed instantly. However, you can imagine my surprise at the start of the church service when that same lady walked to the front of the church and began to lead the worship service. Aside from the female Pastor, the service was okay. It had some liturgy, but it was mostly singing and a sermon. At the end of the service, I talked to some members about what the church believed and discovered they had very theologically liberal beliefs. Needless to say, I didn’t return the following Sunday.
  2. In my first week in Galway, I attended Catholic mass in the Galway cathedral. Now, I know what you’re thinking: “A Lutheran went to Catholic mass?!” Yes, I went to mass. I was curious to observe it because I had never attended a Catholic service. I was surprised by how similar the liturgy of the service was to a Lutheran service. But I didn’t really care for the veneration of Mary, so I didn’t return.
  3. I inadvertently attended a Pentecostal service. The University of Galway’s campus had posters for a Christian society called “Believers Connect.” With a name like that, it sounded like a great place to meet fellow Christians and potentially make new friends. I found their meeting time and place and arrived a bit early. I entered the meeting space and talked to some people who seemed normal. The service started with a guy on a Yamaha keyboard playing random chords and constantly repeating the words of Philippians 2:10-11 “At the name of Jesus, every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord.” This went on for about ten minutes before it finally ended. Then, someone else walked up and said that we would be doing “group prayer.” When I heard that, I assumed that someone would lead a prayer. I was wrong. “Group prayer” meant that everyone said their own individual prayers aloud. I didn’t participate, and I couldn’t even focus amid the chaos of several people all saying their prayers. Then, out of nowhere, a girl started pacing back and forth and began speaking in tongues! I was severely uncomfortable and probably should’ve left, but I didn’t want to be rude, so I stuck it out. Once the prayer time ended, the Pastor of the church showed up. Honestly, the rest of the service is a blur. The Pastor free-styled the “sermon” for 45 minutes, and I quickly got the impression that I had entered a church not with Jesus Christ as its head but a church with that Pastor as its head. I promptly left after the service, disgusted with the heresy and prayerful that God would cause the members of that church to realize the folly of their church’s teachings.
  4. Despite the atrocious experience with the Pentecostals, I wasn’t deterred from checking out another Christian society on campus. I attended my first Dochas Christian Society meeting and immediately realized that fellow believers surrounded me. They were welcoming and kind, and I quickly felt like I belonged. I met Eli (whom I interviewed for my previous blog), and he invited me to attend his church on Sunday. Curious, I went, and Covenant Christian Fellowship became my temporary church home for the semester. Covenant Christian Fellowship is a Reformed Presbyterian church, and while I do not agree with all of their doctrine, I did agree on the essentials and got to hear law and gospel every Sunday. I got involved in the church, and I like several aspects of it. It cannot be overstated how friendly and welcoming everyone was; they had a true community of believers. The members were also Evangelicals, and our shared belief in the importance of sharing the gospel was a common ground we could meet on. I appreciated the Pastor. He was well-trained in the scriptures, and I thought he was a strong leader who exemplified the characteristics of a called worker very well. While we did have a lot in common, the church had some differences that made me appreciate the WELS even more. First, they had a doctrine of the Sabbath, which essentially meant that they didn’t conduct worship services on any other day besides Sundays– I missed having an Ash Wednesday and Good Friday service to go to. Their services were also quite different– they were organized, but they didn’t have a liturgy, and they didn’t sing hymns. Instead, we sang psalms acapella, listened to scripture readings, and VERY long sermons, frequently as long as 40 minutes, often meaning that the average church service would be 1.5 hours. While I appreciated the in-depth exegesis that the Pastor did for each sermon, it was usually hard to pay attention if I didn’t take sermon notes. I also missed parts of the Lutheran liturgy, especially confession/absolution, reciting the creeds, and hymns. 
  5. Finally, I got involved in the Dochas Christian Society, which has helped me in various ways. I made lots of Christian friends, and I was able to interact with them each week. I met so many people with very different backgrounds than my own, and it was interesting to talk to them about what they believed. I also got very involved. I did some street evangelism and led a Bible study on the book of Jonah! I loved learning about other Christians’ beliefs and sharing my Lutheran views. It surprised me that no one had ever really heard of Lutheran theology and what made it different from most Protestant theology. I underestimated how unique my beliefs are, especially concerning the sacraments. I’ll be honest: I did a terrible job explaining my beliefs, and I wasn’t always “prepared to answer” (1 Peter 3:15). Meeting so many people with different beliefs than mine forced me to research and consider why I believe what I believe. As a result, I became much more confident and assured that what the WELS teaches is correct.

My time in Ireland was edifying for my faith. By God’s grace, I grew in my faith and knowledge of Jesus Christ. All these experiences and time spent in God’s Word caused me to reflect on what I’m doing with my life. After careful consideration and prayer, I decided to change my career path. So, when I return to MLC in the fall, I will not be studying to be an English teacher; instead, I will be training to be a pastor! I want to be very clear that I did not have a “vision from God” or hear the voice of God in my head, but instead, I believe that God placed certain things in my life to cause me to think about how I could best serve him. After all of the experience that I gained in Ireland, I can genuinely say that there is nothing that I’d rather do than serve God with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. God has blessed me with gifts and talents to be a pastor and a teacher. Both are excellent ministry opportunities, and I believe I could serve God well in either capacity. However, similar to the old adage about rectangles and squares, all pastors can be (and are) teachers, but not all teachers are pastors. Therefore, if I trained to be a pastor, I would be opening myself up to even more opportunities to serve God, and I could maximize the use of my gifts and talents.

All in all, the most valuable thing that happened to me in Ireland was the opportunity that it gave me to reflect on my beliefs and career path. If there’s anything I learned, it’s that solitude and pondering benefit me. I would also encourage others to find ways to “turn down the noise” of our everyday lives and take intentional time to reflect on their beliefs and purpose in life. I’m very grateful for the opportunity to study abroad and learn more about myself. I look forward to my future training and gospel ministry.

Photos explained:

  1. A photo of the Galway Cathedral
  2. A terribly blurry photo of me doing street evangelism
  3. Easter Sunday service with the fellow MLC study abroad students!
  4. Photo from inside St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome!