First Week in Madrid: First Impressions
Wow, what a start to this incredible experience! I have been living in Madrid for about a week now and have loved every second. I wasn’t sure exactly what I expected the first week to look like, but this has to surpass all expectations. We have been able to see and experience so much culture in so little time. It makes me excited that I still have four months left to continue learning all that I can about the beautiful city of Madrid.
A couple of first impressions:
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- Fitting In: Everyone somehow knows that I am from the United States (whether that be my blonde hair, blue eyes, or my lack of fashion), so they immediately switch from Spanish to English when addressing me. While this is a nice gesture, I came here to practice Spanish! I want to speak, hear, and just be immersed in the language, but being unable to blend in has presented me with a unique challenge. Everyone dresses to be fashionable here, so I wonder if my American style makes me stand out, even though I feel as if I’m “dressing nicely” every day just to fit in.
- Time: Having spent the previous summer in Argentina, where people stay up late and sleep in late, I knew that Madrid would operate on a similar schedule. This has proven to be true. We eat dinner around 8, which many people would still consider early. One of our roommates was very surprised one evening when we were eating dinner so early because it’s expected to eat around 9 or 10 here. I am slowly starting to get used to this time difference, and it has only been a week 🙂
- Relax: Generally, people living here seem to take their time, not rush, and just enjoy each other’s company. I have noticed this in a couple of ways. First, people walk very slowly compared to the United States. I find myself getting impatient with all the slow walkers and need to remind myself that I’m not in a rush and that it’s okay to slow down the pace sometimes. The culture here is also to take their time when ordering food and talking with friends. When I go to a restaurant, I like to order right away, eat my food, and then get out of there as soon as I am done. It is so different here. They take their time chatting with their friends, and the waiters don’t even bring the check or ask to order until much later than I’m used to. So far, this has been refreshing and a great reminder to slow down and enjoy the little things. They also do the “siesta hora” when the whole city closes for a little bit just so that people can take a quick nap in the middle of the day. I love it.
- School: School so far has been going well despite only having three days of it this first week. Typically, the school week is Monday-Thursday morning classes. I love having Fridays off every single week. My first impression of the teachers and the classes has been incredible, and I am so excited to get into a routine with my new class schedule.
Primeras Impresiones
- “Madrid is huge! “Being from a small Wisconsin town and attending college in a small Minnesota town, I have minimal experience with big cities. My few weeks in Argentina gave me a little taste of a big city, but we didn’t have as much free time there as we do here. Thankfully, the metro is pretty easy to use, especially after using the one in BA. It’s pretty efficient, too, which is something I know I’ll miss when I return to the small towns.
- “Our residency is so cute!” The three of us in Spain were all assigned to the same student residency, a 15-minute walk from our classes’ building. I won’t talk about the place too much, but we had a patience test when we arrived. Sarah’s and my rooms weren’t stocked with linens, Tupperware, or towels for the bathroom. It took us a few days (yes, days) to get these things delivered to us by the housing program. They also don’t supply toilet paper, which we found out the hard way. But the place is super cute!
- “The air quality is bad?” Every time I looked at my weather app, the first thing to pop up was the air quality conditions, which are almost always unhealthy. Personally, I can’t really notice a difference between the air here and that back home, but maybe I just didn’t memorize the air from back home. Honestly, though, I can’t say I’m surprised since probably half the people here smoke. I don’t say this directly affects air quality, but it makes sense if it did.
- “Spain is a social culture.” The smoking and going out culture really emphasizes how social the society is. These things aren’t always done indulgently but almost like an excuse to be social. A little conversation during a smoke break, a glass of wine on a lunch date, tapas and a drink with a group at night. Both of the Nebrija campuses have outdoor common areas where students can mingle. Although we have all our classes at the smaller, less pretty building, we still have time between classes to chat with new people and make friends.
- “Everyone here looks so nice!” I mean this in two ways; first of all, they’re pretty. There are very few people that I would consider to be “out of shape.” This is probably because walking is common with things being so close together and because of the food. They don’t tend to eat much, but when they do, it’s healthy overall, especially compared to many options in the US. Second of all, they all have such good style. Barely ever do you see leggings or sweatpants or sweatshirts. That’s just not how they do it here. Not to be rude, but guys from the US need to take notes! These Spanish men are stylish!
- “This weather is warm; why do people look cold?” The weather here has been warmer than usual, getting up to 60 degrees a few days. Now the temperatures are in the 50s, and people look like they’re going to brave the below-zero temperatures of windy Minnesota! I’ve been comfortable in just a cardigan or sweater. They have oversized coats, hats, scarves, and gloves. They wear so many layers of clothing. And somehow, they still look fashionable!
Cozy Corners and Cultural Connections: My Irish Housing Experience
I have been living in Galway for 35 days now, and it’s a hard statistic for me to believe. Time moves differently in Ireland– the days fly by. For the most part, I have gotten over the initial culture shock and am thriving. I have a solid daily routine, and that helps a lot with providing stability and peace of mind. I plan my daily routine each week and intentionally carve out time to work on things that bring me pleasure. For example, I wake up each morning and allot about one to two hours for writing before I start my day. On February 5th, I finished working on a rough draft of a 20,000-word novella. Now, I’m working on a memoir of the early years of my life. I started this because I noticed that I have lost some of my early childhood memories and want to preserve them by writing them down. I have also been reading a ton– I’ve read nine books since I arrived in Ireland. Currently, I am reading the monstrous novel “Lonesome Dove” by Larry McMurtry and having a whale of a time.
I have been tasked with writing about my housing arrangements for this blog. When I left for Galway, I did not know that Ireland is in the midst of a housing crisis. I found housing accommodations without any hassle, a blessing from God that I did not realize I had received until I talked to some Irish friends. I live in a student village, essentially blocks of identically shaped houses arranged like a game of Tetris. The houses are made of brick, and from the outside, they wouldn’t look out of place in a college town in the United States. I was blessed with a house that faces the Northeast, which means I am protected from the ferocious winds that come off the North Atlantic from the Southwest. It’s the little things in life.
My house is located in a prime location. I live about a ten-minute walk from a Dunnes (Ireland’s version of Target), a Tesco (Ireland’s version of HyVee), and an Aldi. I live about a 15-minute walk from my University’s campus. Oddly enough, I love my daily walks to class and find them relaxing. The train and bus stations are located in the city center (aka Eyre Square), and it takes me about a 20-minute walk to reach there. With all my walking, I end up averaging 12,000 steps per day.
If I am quite honest, the inside of my house is bland. The walls are painted either white or beige, depending on the room. The aesthetics of my house are comparable to those of a hotel; generic, but sufficient. The ground floor is a combination of a kitchen and living room. The living room is great for lounging, working on homework, and hanging out with people. There’s also a gas fireplace that I often sit in front of as I work on homework. It emits the perfect amount of heat– enough to keep me warm but not overheat me unless I leave it on for more than four hours.
I have a large kitchen to work with, and my house has dishes and cooking utensils, but they are of lower quality. I’ll simply describe the mismatched dishes and utensils as “well-loved” and leave it at that. I don’t particularly appreciate spending too much time in the kitchen because I have a different standard of cleanliness than my roommates. Frequently, I have to reclean dishes before eating and cooking because my roommates fail to remove the crusty bits of food from their dishes. They also often commit the atrocity of not throwing away wrappers– leaving them on the counter or table. I have communicated with my roommates about my grievances, but not much has changed, and I’d like to maintain my peace with my roommates, so I’ll just live with it.
I have three Irish roommates: John, Alan, and Peter. John is studying computer science and is great fun to talk to. He’s helped advise and teach me how certain things work in Ireland. Alan is studying Business and is “one of the lads.” He also enjoys asking me about US politics– I was informed that many Irish citizens, himself included, follow US politics for entertainment. I rarely see Peter because we operate on much different schedules; he’s friendly, but I haven’t had the opportunity to talk to him much. When we do speak, his accent is so thick that it’s hard to understand him sometimes, a difficulty I never expected I would encounter. I have noticed that my Irish roommates tend to have a different philosophy of life than mine. I am very assertive, proactive, and “do things the right way the first time so I won’t have to redo them.” My Irish roommates, classmates, and professors tend to be much more passive and carefree concerning details. It’s not wrong; it’s different, so I’m learning to live with it.
My bedroom is on the first floor, above the living room. I share a room with a guy from California named Colm. Colm and I are very different, but we get along just fine. He’s also very passive, like my Irish roommates. He likes to talk about UFC, Formula 1, and the NFL, so I try my hardest to pretend I know what he’s talking about to converse with him. I sleep in a twin bed, but I’m convinced it’s smaller than an American twin-sized bed because my feet will hang off the edge of the bed if I lay out straight. It’s not the end of the world because the mattress is comfortable. It will never compare to my bed at home, but it’s vastly superior to some of the beds I’ve slept in before.
Next to my bed is my desk. I love my desk. It has the perfect amount of space and storage on the shelves above. At the very least, I spend about three hours daily at my desk. As mentioned, I write for about 1-2 hours daily and also work on homework, read, or ponder at my desk. In fact, I’m sitting at my desk right now as I write this. My private library also sits on the shelf above my desk. I am an unashamed bibliophile. I love to sit at my desk and look at my books– something is enchanting about them.
Now I know what you’re thinking… how does my housing here compare to MLC? I’d say it’s another case of “not wrong, just different.” I enjoy the independence that I have here– I share a bathroom with only one other person, I can quickly cook my food, I can control the temperature of my room, and it is consistently quiet. However, I miss living with my MLC roommates, Rees and Adam. I miss being able to roll out of bed fifteen minutes before class starts and still make it on time. Unsurprisingly, I also miss being able to walk outside of my dorm, hop in my car, and drive anywhere I want.
All in all, I am loving my experience in Ireland so far. I am adjusting to the culture and am continuing to meet loads of new people. So far, one of the biggest shocks has been how much self-education I’ve done. I don’t have many academic obligations (eight hours of class time total per week), so I spend a lot of time reading and researching things that interest me. Believe it or not, adjusting to having so much free time has been challenging. I’ve found the free time especially beneficial for my relationship with God– I take extra time to pray and read my Bible. Please continue to pray for me as I study abroad, and I hope you enjoyed reading this!
España Escapades: A Journey of Goals and Growth Abroad
I’m Sarah Hoffe, a junior on the teacher track at Martin Luther College. I’m a Spanish major, so naturally, that is a beautiful excuse to travel the world to learn more about the Spanish language and culture. I am from Nodine, MN, where I have lived my whole life. So, I am excited to branch out and explore the world finally!
As the anticipation for my upcoming study abroad journey to Spain builds, I find myself reflecting on the goals and expectations I have set for myself, the program, and the experiences that lie ahead. Embarking on this adventure is a mix of excitement and nervousness, but I am confident that the challenges will pave the way for personal growth and unforgettable memories.
Expectations for Myself: Embracing Change and Adaptability
I anticipate that living in a new country, immersed in a different culture and language, will be a transformative experience. I look forward to becoming more comfortable with change and developing adaptability to navigate unfamiliar situations. My primary concern is grappling with homesickness as I learn to become more comfortable with change. The thought of being away from the familiar faces and comforts of home for an extended period is daunting. However, I recognize this as an opportunity for personal growth and resilience-building. This experience allows me to step out of my comfort zone and embrace the unknown with open arms. I also expect that studying abroad will cultivate respect for other cultures. Being open to diverse perspectives is a priority for me. I pray this experience will broaden my understanding of the world, fostering cultural sensitivity and appreciation. I hope to return home with a more global mindset, enriched by connections with people from various backgrounds.
Expectations for the Program: Pushing Comfort Zones and Appreciating the Present
I believe the program’s design will challenge me to step out of my comfort zone as I am encouraged and required to use Spanish in many situations in and outside of school. Whether navigating new cities or interacting with locals in Spanish, I anticipate moments of discomfort that will ultimately contribute to personal and academic growth. Another of my expectations is that this program will teach me to appreciate the things I may take for granted in the United States, many of which I am not aware of yet since I won’t know what I’m missing here until I am abroad. Living abroad provides a unique perspective on life, and I hope to gain a deeper appreciation for the richness and uniqueness of different cultures.
Goals for the Program: Improved Spanish Proficiency and Travel
A primary goal for this experience is to enhance my Spanish language skills. I often find myself being concerned that my language skills may not improve as significantly as I hope. Overcoming language barriers is integral to fully immersing myself in the culture, and the fear of stagnation in this aspect lingers in my mind. I aim to increase my comfort level when communicating with native speakers and gain the confidence to express myself effectively in Spanish. Another goal is to travel to a different country on my own. The prospect of navigating a foreign land independently both excites and challenges me. I believe this experience will not only boost my confidence but also encourage me to travel more often. Solo travel is not the highest priority for me; however, I expect I will love traveling with my friends and experiencing new things with other people (old friends and new ones:).
Greatest Challenge:
Undoubtedly, my greatest challenge will be navigating the distance from the people I hold dear. However, I acknowledge that this separation, though difficult, offers a unique opportunity for personal and emotional growth. The support of loved ones will remain a source of strength as I embark on this incredible and exciting adventure.
As the departure date approaches, I look forward to the personal development and all the discoveries that studying abroad in Spain promises. Through embracing change, pushing boundaries, and fostering cultural understanding, I anticipate a journey that will shape not only my academic pursuits but also my perspective on life. Here’s to the unknown and the growth that awaits on the picturesque streets of Spain!
My Goals and Expectations for Studying Abroad in Madrid, Spain
Hi everyone! My name is Alaina Wiedoff and I am in my junior year at Martin Luther College. It is unbelievable to think that this semester abroad, something I have been planning since the beginning of freshman year, is a couple days away. I am for sure feeling all of the feelings – disbelief, excitement, confusion, anxiousness, gratitude, and more. If I am being honest, I have sat down and attempted to write this blog four different times in the last week, but have gotten overwhelmed with the fact that this once-in-a-lifetime experience is just a few days before me and indeed is very real and not a dream. Here I am now though, after I could not fall asleep due to runaway thoughts of this trip.
For this first blog, I get the opportunity to reflect on my goals and expectations for my semester abroad in Madrid. I have lots of small and large goals for myself during my time abroad. I LOVE setting goals for myself but have done an extremely poor job of consistently following through on these goals. That being said, one of my top goals is to work hard to follow through on my goals! 🙂
Starting with an expectation: I expect that after this program wraps up, I will be more confident in my Spanish speaking abilities. If anyone knows me, you know I am very hard on myself about my abilities in Spanish and feel I should be further along than I am. A goal that goes hand-in-hand with this expectation, is spending time outside of class studying and practicing Spanish concepts that I am not as confident in. This may look like reviewing certain concepts and practicing them in my notebook and then using these concepts in real-life conversations. I do believe that I will feel more confident after spending four months studying and learning the language more! I do expect this program to challenge me and to encourage me to work hard! I believe that through this program I will have exposure to many different cultures and life styles which will broaden my perspective and Lord-willingly contribute to my personal and spiritual growth.
I am a very structured person. I love planning out every key detail and having a schedule that I can follow at all times, especially when traveling. Schedules are not always a bad thing, but I have learned that when I focus too heavily on following the schedule or making sure plans go exactly as I expect them to, I find myself more stressed out with change and less content with the experiences before me. After learning more about European culture, one insight I have gained is that the way of life there is more slow going and less rigid. This way of life can be so beautiful. A goal that I will daily be working at is becoming more flexible and adaptable to change and spontaneity. Not only do I want to become more flexible in situations, but I want to find the joys and blessings that come with the unexpected paths I may take. I will, of course, maintain my aspirations and objectives for things I wish to see and achieve, but do so while adapting and embracing the unpredictable experiences that European life may present.
Similarly, I want to learn more about myself and embrace the change and growth that may come with this semester. I tend to get super anxious about both big and small changes and worry about the outcome of those changes. Living in a different country and culture is going to bring about a lot of small and big changes. I not only want to become more flexible and adaptable to these changes, but embrace them and see the beauty that God is working through them.
THIS is another big goal of mine; to trust in the Lord with all of my heart and trust that he is working out His plan in my life no matter what may change or not go the way I expect it to!
Here is the list of some of my more general personal goals this semester, in no particular order!:
- Write everyday in my gratitude journal!
- (Prayer in the morning and 3 things I am thankful for at the end of the day!)
- Write in my Travel journal 4 times a week!
- Read 3 books!
- Read the book of Psalms in both English and Spanish!
- Sit and try to paint at least 3 times!
- Make new friends!
- Travel to 5 new countries.
- Take a solo trip!
- Exercise 3 times a week!
- Stay connected to my loved ones back home!
- Improve my Spanish speaking and knowledge of the language!
- Learn more of the history of Spain!
Finally, the most important goal for me is to stay rooted in my faith. I would love to daily be in my Bible and spend time with my Father in prayer. I am blessed here at home, to have my church community as well as my MLC community. While I am abroad, I will not physically have this community with me, even though I know you are all rooting for me and praying for me. (Thank you, truly. It means the world!) I would love to find a community abroad that I can worship with and have conversations with about Jesus and His love and ministry. Lord-willingly, when and if I find this community, I would love to create close friendships and maintain these bonds while I am abroad and beyond.
Lately, as I have been preparing to leave for this God-given, amazing opportunity, I have been meditating on these verses that have given me comfort:
Deuteronomy 31:8:
“The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”
And
All of Psalm 23 – The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want.
I ask that you please keep my friends and I who are studying abroad in your prayers! Thank you for your support and prayers, it means so much.
God works in beautiful ways and I am so incredibly excited to see His plan for this season of my life!
Thanks for following along!
Con Amor, (with love)
Alaina Wiedoff